Are you one of those people who say magulo isip nila at walang mangyari?
Let me help you by guessing some probable reasons..
1. Hindi mo alam ang gusto mo. Siguro natatakot kang magkamali. O hindi ka nasanay ng nagdedecide kahit may takot na baka mali? Walang perfect decision. Mas mahirap kung walang decision and we just allow circumstances to lead us. Ang mahalaga taking the responsibility and doing the right thing pag nagkamali.
2. Or you think ang journey ay straight line or no surprises, walang liko liko, atras abante o kaya failures? Totoo ba yan? Pag mukhang maraming dadaanan na problem, siguro sabi mo, teka muna, bahala na ang Diyos? Walang free will? Hindi ba ok kung siguraduhin natin kung ano gusto natin?
3. You love the comfort zone? Ok lang sa iyo where you are? Walang bago? Do you know that discovering yourself is outside the comfort zone? Baka hindi mo pa na discover mga kaya mong gawin kaya takot ka sumabak? Walang masama sa sumabak. Ang importante, you remain in control. That means you are taking responsibility and you never blame others.
4. You are afraid to decide kasi baka mali? If you are letting circumstances run your life, mali na talaga.
So what is the lesson here? Nothing is sure in this life. Siguraduhin mo lang na alam mo ang will ni Lord at kasama mo Siya sa major decisions mo. Nasa bible ang God’s will for our lives.
Boni de Jesus 